Parent Orientation · 2026–2027
Nurturing Young
Muslim Minds
A weekend Islamic school for ages 5–16 — helping our children learn, love, and live Islam.
Looking back · What’s new · Our mission · How to enroll
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Our starting point
Every one of us is responsible.
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:
Every one of you is a shepherd, and every one of you is responsible for his flock.
The ruler is a shepherd over his people and is responsible for them. A man is a shepherd over the members of his household and is responsible for them. A woman is a shepherd over her husband’s house and his children and is responsible for them.
A servant is a shepherd over the wealth of his master and is responsible for it.
Surely, every one of you is a shepherd, and every one of you will be questioned about his flock.
Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1829a · Book 33, Hadith 24
Not the school alone. Not the parents alone. Each of us, for the part that Allah has placed in our hands.
Understanding the hadith
What does shepherd actually mean?
The Prophet ﷺ chose this picture on purpose. A shepherd is not a spectator — he is personally answerable for every animal in his care.
🛡ProtectsHe stands between the flock and whatever would harm it.
🌾Feeds and nurturesHe makes sure every one of them is fed and cared for.
🧭GuidesHe knows the way, and he leads them to safety.
🔁CorrectsWhen one wanders off, he brings it back — gently, but he brings it back.
👁WatchesDay and night. Not only when it is convenient.
⚖Will be questionedAnd on the Day of Judgement he will be asked about them.
Parents and school
Both shepherds — but not in the same measure.
We share the same responsibility. We do not share the same amount of time, contact or influence, and it helps to say that plainly.
One year in a child’s life8,736 hours · 100%
126 hours1.44% of the yearWith us at the weekend school — 42 Sundays × 3 hours. That is every minute the teachers will ever have.
8,610 hours98.56% of the yearEverywhere else — home, day school, friends, screens. The overwhelming share of it is with you.
| Parents | Weekend school |
| Role | Daily role models | Weekly guidance |
|---|
| Responsibility | Primary | Supporting |
This is not a complaint. It is simply the arithmetic that every plan for our children has to start from.
Chapter one · Looking back
Reflection on our
previous school year.
An honest review of the difficulties we faced together last year — and what each of us can do differently in this one.
Before we begin · the promise made last year
This school is 100% free.
Not one family pays a dollar. The teachers, the books, the room, the hours — every part of it is given to your children at no cost to you, and it will stay that way.
At this same orientation last year we asked for one thing in return. Not money. We asked that the fathers come to the masjid for at least one salah a day.
That promise was not kept.
This is not said to shame anyone. It is said because it is the plainest measure of everything in the pages that follow. A child learns salah by watching his father get up and walk to it — not by being told about it for three hours on a Sunday. So we are asking again, for this year.
Parent Engagement & Commitment
Islamic education cannot succeed when the school is expected to replace the home.
- Parents viewing the school as childcare instead of a partnership in Islamic education.
- Parents expecting the school to teach everything, while little or no Islamic learning happens at home.
- Parents not reading school announcements or WhatsApp messages.
- Parents not responding to teachers or the school administration.
- Parents asking for the school rules to be waived for their own children.
- Parents not attending mandatory parent meetings.
- One parent being committed while the other shows little interest.
- Parents speaking negatively about teachers or the school in front of their children.
- Difficulties at home carrying over into the children and into school responsibilities.
Attendance & Punctuality
Consistent attendance is what makes continuity, discipline and real progress possible.
- Frequent absence without a valid reason.
- Taking children on holiday during school days.
- Picnics, parties and family outings scheduled on school days.
- Children leaving before classes finish.
- Children picked up very late after school.
- Families enrolling, attending a few weeks, and then disappearing.
Student Behaviour
Teachers cannot teach when most of the lesson is spent managing the room.
- Talking constantly and disturbing others while the teacher is teaching.
- Repeated interruptions during class.
- Bullying younger students.
- Using inappropriate language.
- Making fun of other students.
- Refusing to take part in activities.
- Running inside the Masjid.
- Damaging Masjid property.
- Refusing to follow classroom instructions.
Islamic Etiquette (Adab)
The Masjid is a sacred place, and it must be treated with dignity, cleanliness and respect.
- Not giving salaam.
- Talking loudly inside the Masjid.
- Walking in front of people who are praying.
- Eating and leaving litter in the Masjid.
- Clothing that is not appropriate for the Masjid.
- Laughing and joking during salah.
Learning & Academic Progress
What is learned on Sunday has to be revisited during the week, or it quietly disappears.
- Children forgetting previous lessons because nothing is revised during the week.
- No daily reading of homework at home.
- Students refusing to practise their memorisation.
- Students not asking questions when they do not understand.
- Books and learning materials repeatedly lost.
- No revision before quizzes or tests.
- Students trying to memorise only during the Sunday class.
Technology & Distractions
Unmonitored screen use is affecting concentration, behaviour, modesty and spiritual life.
- Excessive screen time affecting concentration.
- Many hours on video games with no parental monitoring.
- Watching inappropriate content online during class.
- Students found with haram material on their phones.
- Smart watches and phones interrupting the class.
- Children secretly using phones during lessons.
- Students secretly listening to music through headphones during class.
In an honest verbal survey, some children reported spending ten or more hours a day on social media and electronic devices. This needs immediate parental attention.
Supporting Our Teachers
Teachers need parents to reinforce the same expectations at home.
- Teachers spending more time on discipline than on teaching.
- Teachers repeating the same instructions every single week.
- Parents not checking messages for weeks, sometimes months.
- Teachers left without support when they enforce school policy.
Health & Hygiene
Cleanliness and suitable clothing are part of respecting yourself, others and the Masjid.
- Children arriving in torn clothing.
- Sagging: e.g. wearing pants far below the waistline in a way that their underwear is showing.
- Children arriving without brushing their teeth, saying they came straight from bed.
- Strong body odour from poor hygiene.
- Long or dirty fingernails and untidy hair.
- Wearing shoes in areas where shoes are not permitted.
- Children attending while unwell and passing illness to others.
Respect for School Property
Books, furniture, electronics and classrooms belong to the whole community.
- School books and learning materials lost.
- Classroom electronics and furniture damaged.
- Classrooms left untidy.
Spiritual Development
Our greatest concern: Islam practised on Sunday, and then set aside until the following Sunday.
- Salah prayed at school but not consistently at home.
- Commitments made at enrollment — such as fathers attending the Masjid regularly — not kept.
- Parents not praying together with their children.
- Children memorising without understanding the meaning.
- No Islamic conversation taking place within the family.
- Children seeing one standard at home and a different standard at school.
Roughly 90% of fathers did not keep the commitment to attend the Masjid regularly and be a visible role model for their children.
The root of it
Three hours cannot replace the home.
The school can teach, guide, encourage and correct. But Islamic character, worship, manners, discipline and habit are built somewhere else — in the ordinary daily example of a parent.
Weekend Islamic school3
hours a week — 126 hours in a whole year, 1.44% of it.
versus
Parents & home365
days of influence, example, discipline, encouragement and Islamic practice.
Nothing on this list can be fixed by the school on its own. Every single one of them changes the moment it is supported at home.
Moving forward
What success will require.
The year ahead has to be built on clear expectations, real accountability, active parental participation, and consistent Islamic practice at home.
Parents lead at homeDaily salah, revision, good manners, healthy routines and Islamic conversation — carried through the whole week, not just Sunday.
Teachers guide at schoolStructure, knowledge, encouragement, correction and accountability, within the short time we have each week.
The Masjid supports bothA sacred environment where children see Islam practised consistently by the adults around them.
“Indeed, Allāh will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.”
Qur’an 13:11 · Sūrah ar-Ra‘d
What Is Changing · 1 of 2
A stronger, more focused school year.
👥Four age groups, eight classesStudents are grouped by age across eight smaller classes.
🎯Smaller, more focusedFewer children per class means more attention for every child.
📖More understandingA little less memorization — and more time on Islamic learning.
🎁Free, as alwaysThe school stays free. Parents only purchase the Weekend Learning books (weekendlearning.com) themselves.
What Is Changing · 2 of 2
New times, prayer together, and an online portal.
🕛New timingClasses now run 11:00 AM – 2:00 PM every weekend.
🕌Ẓuhr togetherParents are asked to pray Ẓuhr with their children at pick-up.
📅Full schedule onlineThe whole year’s schedule is posted online so you can plan holidays ahead.
💻A new Parent PortalEvery family gets an online portal — see the next slide.
The Parent Portal
Everything in one place — and enrollment is online.
📝Weekly lessons & homeworkPosted on the portal each week for your child.
👨👦Parents complete assignmentsYou complete the weekly assignments with your child on the portal.
📊Everything trackedAttendance, discipline, memorization, past homework & points — all on the portal.
Enrollment is done only through the online portal — and it closes July 31.
Scoring & reports
How your child is measured, every single week.
Every child now carries one weekly scorecard. Part of it is earned in the classroom on Sunday. The larger part is earned at home from Monday to Saturday — which is exactly where the year actually is.
Marked by the teacher on Sunday70
School attendancePresent, and on time10
Daily homework from homeSent on WhatsApp — the best 5 of the 6 days counts10
MemorizationThe Qur’an and du‘ā’ set for that week20
Discipline in schoolFull marks unless something is recorded20
Prior homework & memoryHas last week’s work actually been retained?10
Earned at home during the week65
The weekly lesson quizNEWThe teacher uploads Sunday’s lesson, the portal builds a short quiz from it, and it is emailed to you. You quiz your own child at home during the week.30
The five daily salahNEWYou tick each salah your child prayed, on the portal, on the day itself. One mark per salah — five salah, seven days, 35 in all. A day that is never recorded scores zero and then closes.35
Total available each week135
At the end of every week the teacher sends each child’s scorecard to their own parents by email, together with the running total for the month — the same report you already receive today. Any category below 85% is the one to work on next week. None of this is a punishment. It is simply an honest, visible record, so that no child quietly drifts.
Focus · At Home
Spend a little time every day with your child.
You don't need an hour. Ten to fifteen unhurried minutes a day, done consistently, changes a child's heart more than anything else.
☉Pray togetherLet them see you pray. Invite them to join even one salah a day.
📖Read a little Qur'anA few ayaat or a short surah — recite, repeat, and praise their effort.
✨Practice one good mannerSalaam, truthfulness, kindness — name it, model it, notice it.
📚Review the Sunday lessonAsk “what did you learn?” and go over the week's chapter together.
🌙A du'a at bedtimeEnd the day with a short du'a — comfort, gratitude, and connection to Allah.
💪Be the exampleChildren copy what they see far more than what they are told.
Small, daily, and joyful beats big, rare, and forced. Consistency is the secret.
Our Mission
صِفَة
Our name is our mission.
Ṣifah (صِفَة) means attribute — a defining quality of the soul, the way a person is described when their character is named. In English, Ṣifah stands for the School of Islamic Foundations & Advocacy for Humanity. The two meanings are not separate. They are one.
Our Mission
A single Ṣifah above all others — a heart of love.
We teach to cultivate one attribute: a heart that loves Islam, that loves Allah and His Messenger ﷺ, and that extends love to every part of Allah’s creation — shaping how a person prays, raises their children, treats a stranger, and walks through the world.
Love for AllāhThe first and greatest attribute — a heart attached to its Creator, worshipping Him alone with sincerity, gratitude, and awe.
Love for the Messenger ﷺLoving the Prophet ﷺ more than our own selves — following his sunnah, his manners, and his mercy in everything we do.
Love for the CreationExtending that love outward — to parents, neighbours, strangers, and every part of Allāh’s creation, becoming a mercy to all.
Knowledge serves the attribute. The attribute serves the believer. And the believer, bi-idhnillāh, becomes a mercy to all that Allāh has made.
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